Sorry still having trouble with it, could i get some help with the other choices that affect it that aren't about affection?  I mean the choices that have mattered for the kissing scene but not enough for the final one, I played around with the choices from the start of the game such as keeping his advice in mind and talking about his concerns and those have either gotten or closed off the kissing scene but i haven't found the correct combination for the final one.  i'm confident for the choices that i get the understanding/affinity change message one because as far as i know those are all positive outcomes its just the ones that don't have an indicator